Hi, Matic. Thank you for your comment. I say in the post that a baby is NOT chocolate. And of course I understand that some people have a deep, inexplicable desire to have a child (I have something similar, except to NOT have a child), but not all do. And yet, they have children, anyway. Because having children 100% affects the lives of children, why someone wants them should be thoughtfully considered and explored before going ahead with that lifelong commitment.