I'm not sure where you're getting that I'm putting the onus on women, but I do think you're missing the point I'm making, which is that both both both - both people having sex, both people whose sperm and egg create a pregnancy [specifically when sex is consensual] - should be more aware of pregnancy potential and abortion potential and childcare potential and whether anyone wants to be a parent to a child.

I'm not interested in male v. female battles. It's boring and reductive. I'm interested in people and treating them all as people.