Indeed. In this case it takes more nights than I am prepared to wait.641EstwaldKristen TsetsiApr 29, 2018·1 min readNone. My husband wouldn’t like it very much. But I was the one to approach him, and I was the one to propose. Since I started having boyfriends, my “pursuer” vs. “pursued” rate probably averaged out to my being the pursuer 70% of the time.