Oops! (comment deleted) I mistook your comments here for being attached to a different post (Choice: Should Men Get One?), so I must be coming across as totally flaky. I am so sorry.

I think you're generalizing men as bad and women as good, but we know from real life that nothing is that simple. Women trap men into parenthood - a man I know was mounted by his wife when he was fuzzed out on post-op drugs and impregnated herself without his consent (she knew he didn't want kids). And it happens to plenty of people I don't know.

Pressure is pressure, and we (as a society) take for granted that it's fine to force/pressure men into parenthood but not fine to similarly force/pressure women into it.

I disagree with that.