Well, you said you had never heard of it happening, so now you have. And while I suspect your goal is to simply say “women are bad and men are the real victims,” and in response to a piece by a woman that encourages women to take charge in dating situations, no less, I offer this final point re: whether women have any reason to be suspicious of men. “Around the world, at least 1 woman in every 3 has been beaten, coerced into sex, or otherwise abused in her lifetime.” | “An estimated 91% of victims of rape & sexual assault are female and 9% male. Nearly 99% of perpetrators are male.” https://supportingsurvivors.humboldt.edu/statistics#:~:text=An%20estimated%2091%25%20of%20victims,99%25%20of%20perpetrators%20are%20male.