While under the best circumstances both have a choice when it comes to whether he ejaculates inside of her, the "so what" of this isn't to say men or women have something better or worse, but to explore whether there's a solution re: a person's desires about pregnancy/pregnancy termination.

I, as a person, would not like to be told that I have no choice but to become a parent, and I kind of doubt other people, even if they have penises, like that very much, either. And as someone who until recently had a uterus, I naturally agree that the pregnant person has the only say when it comes to carrying a pregnancy to term or ending it, but maybe some kind of pre-intercourse conversation or agreement would at least lead to no surprises, or maybe fewer unwelcome life changes.